CHARISMA reflections...... :)

What you MUST and GOTTA have:
I think that the most important thing that i must have is integrity. If you want anybody to trust you, they got to trust you first. That is when integrity comes in. You must have to be honest to yourself and to other people. You must not lie your way through to get the things that you want. OK, at first people would not know that you are lying. What if they find out one day? Their hopes pinned on you would be dashed and they would be utterly disappointed in you isn't it?
By then, it would be too late to change to get their trust back. Hence, i think that integrity is essential.
What you CAN DO WITHOUT:
I think one must not be arrogant. If one is arrogant, there would be a communication breakdown between one another because the person is so arrogant that the person would not care about what you are saying.